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Pasta alla Carbonara

March 5, 2012

The summer before my freshman year in high school, my family moved out of San Francisco and to a neighboring town a few miles away. This meant that I spent my first year in a new school trying to find my place in a sea of new faces.  I was extremely shy which severely limited my opportunities to make friends.  I was too timid to join a club or participate in sports so the friends I made were those who sat around me in class.  At least by the end of that first year I knew a small cluster of people I could consider friends and I didn’t feel so much like the new girl.

During my sophomore year, things continued to improve.  I had become acquainted with most of the people in my class and also some upperclassmen but it was a passing comment from a friend that prompted an important revelation that I have never quite forgotten.

One day, as we were walking to class, this new friend said, “You’re actually really nice! We were afraid to talk to you for a while because we thought you were a snob!”

Me? A snob?  I couldn’t believe it, but I suppose it was a valid observation to make about me at the time.  I was so petrified of other people that I hid behind a mask of indifference.  I never said hello first when walking down the hallway for fear that I would be ignored and humiliated.  I never dared show that, yes, I wanted to smile and greet you but only if I knew that the gesture would be reciprocated.  Oh, to be young and insecure.

I took that lesson to heart.  I would like to think that I have made myself much more approachable since then, even deliberately putting myself in situations (through the rest of high school, college and later in my career) that forced me to be in front of the public and to make the first social/professional move.  It has been liberating. I am still shy by nature but I have come a long way…and I am definitely no snob…

…well, maybe in one part of my life I do sometimes stick my nose up in the air.  When it comes to pasta carbonara, I am quite picky.  I am a stickler for  its traditional preparation of using no cream.  Pasta carbonara is a humble dish.  If you love it as much as I do, you are familiar with its simple ingredients:  eggs, guanciale, Pecorino cheese and ground pepper.  I continue to have trouble finding guanciale so I usually use deli bacon (not heavily smoked) or pancetta on occasion.  Pecorino-Romano is the preferred cheese in Rome where this dish originated, but Parmigiano-Reggiano is also widely used.  Honestly, I don’t use Pecorino too much as it is a bit too salty for me.  As for the eggs, the number of eggs used varies from recipe to recipe.  Do you use only egg yolks or the whites too?  There may be minor variations in proportion for these aformentioned ingredients but cream should never be part of the equation.  Just my (not so humble) opinion.  I have nothing against creamy pasta dishes–love them–just not in my carbonara, please.

Here is the way I have learned to prepare mine over the years.  It took a bit of trial and error to not end up with scrambled eggs when “cooking” the sauce but I finally got it right.  I hope you like it.

Pasta alla Carbonara

* serves 2 (easily doubles for 4)

  • 1/2 pound spaghetti
  • 4 ounces bacon, pancetta or guanciale (cut up)
  • 1/2 cup Parmigiano-Reggiano, plus more for topping (or Pecorino Romano if you have it)
  • 2 whole eggs
  • 1 egg yolk
  • Lots of freshly ground black pepper
  • salt, to taste
  • Chopped parsley for garnish (not traditional but I used for the photos)
  • Reserved pasta water, optional
  1. Bring a pot of water to a boil but don’t start cooking your pasta until you have prepped the “sauce”.  It is important that the pasta be freshly drained from the pot when you use it.  It is this heat that will cook the eggs for the sauce.  
  2. To prepare the sauce:  In a bowl large enough to accommodate the pasta, whisk together the eggs, egg yolk, cheese and several turns of ground pepper from a peppermill.  Set aside.  
  3. When you are ready to fry the bacon, you can also start boiling the pasta.  Cook the bacon in a pan until crisp.  Take the pan off the heat and leave the bacon to cool slightly with its rendered fat for 3-4 minutes (about the same time it will take for the pasta to finish cooking).
  4. When the pasta is ready, drain it lightly so that you have just a bit of pasta water still dripping from the colander (don’t rinse!) and immediately add to the egg/cheese/pepper mixture.  Add the bacon and drippings (if you have too much rendered fat, leave some out) and toss quickly to incorporate the sauce into the pasta.  If the timing is right, you shouldn’t have any scrambled egg bits but it’s okay if you do.  It will be better next time.  🙂
  5. Taste for seasonings. You shouldn’t need salt at this point but add if you wish.  I always add more pepper to mine.  Serve immediately. 
51 Comments leave one →
  1. March 5, 2012 9:37 AM

    This is really something! The photos are beautiful and the pasta superb! I can relate, still today people say I look sad and that makes me wonder ’cause I am not (usually); Oh well, and I have been called indifferent as well. I dont think you are a snob my dear! 🙂

    • March 6, 2012 8:20 PM

      Thanks, Joumana. It was an enlightening experience, for sure. I’m sure my shyness is still mistaken for aloofness sometimes but hopefully not as often as before. 🙂

  2. March 5, 2012 9:46 AM

    I think it happens to many of us, doesn’t it? This pasta looks fantastic, very light looking for a carbonara!

  3. March 5, 2012 9:54 AM

    Oh you are not a snob..I am the same way, shy by nature and even now I have hard time saying “hello” first or approaching anybody:)
    Beautiful pasta…and of course very tasty! Great photos Jean!

    • March 6, 2012 8:22 PM

      Thanks, Sandra, I guess a lot of us are like this. Now I say hello first all the time but I’m still shy! 🙂

  4. March 5, 2012 10:12 AM

    From one carbonara snob to another–cheers! I like the touch of parsley; not something I usually add but will dress mine up next time I make it. My Zia Bruna would approve, I think.

    • March 5, 2012 11:09 AM

      Hi, Josh. Thanks for your comment. 🙂 I added the parsley because I had so much to use up and also because it adds some contrast to the picture. Definitely not traditional. Glad you like this, thanks! 🙂

  5. March 5, 2012 11:40 AM

    This pasta alla carbonara looks so delicious! I’ve always wanted to try and make it from scratch, but haven’t tried again since it turned out terribly for me YEARS ago. Time to get back on the horse! Lovely recipe and photos. Thank you for inspiring me!

    • March 6, 2012 8:24 PM

      Hi, Georgia! I had a lot of carbonara fails before it started working for me. Hope my post helps; please let me know if you do try it. 🙂

  6. March 5, 2012 11:49 AM

    This is way better than most pasta all carbonara recipes I’ve seen–it’s that it isn’t drowned in sauce, I think. BTW, I know what you mean about the snob thing–I’m naturally a little shy, and it always leads people to think that I’m aloof when really I’m the opposite!

  7. March 5, 2012 12:26 PM

    Gorgeous pasta! Glad to hear I am not the only one; I have heard that comment before about being shy and thinking I was a snob too! I have tried to over come it as well, but it can be hard sometimes!

  8. March 5, 2012 1:09 PM

    your pasta looks beautiful! simple ingredients yet so decadent…love it!

  9. March 5, 2012 2:04 PM

    It’s definitely tough to be the new kid at school…isn’t it funny to find out how others perceive us though? It can be so different from how we actually feel.

    Love this dish, but I’ve never made it at home — I need to give it a try!

  10. March 5, 2012 3:15 PM

    Hi Jean,

    Your story describes exactly how I was in school and around new people,shy. I’m still quite shy when I don’t know people and have also been told that they thought I was a snob. Its funny how people mistake shyness for snobbery. Your recipe sounds delicious and photographs are beautiful. Thanks for sharing!

  11. March 5, 2012 3:44 PM

    What a wonderful dish! My family would love it, especially since there’s bacon in it!! This will be on my menu this week!! Thanks for a great recipe!

  12. March 5, 2012 4:05 PM

    Hi Jean! Carbonara has been one of my favorite pasta since we made it in home & economics class in middle school. I think I learned somewhere that Americans like to use cream but I had never tried cream version. We need ingredients that we normally have in the fridge, so this has been my go-to recipe when I actually don’t have many things to cook with. I am so happy you posted it because I know you are particular about how Carbonara should be made, and I like it to try very authentic method as much as possible. I will try your recipe next time I make for sure.

    • March 6, 2012 8:28 PM

      Nami, I’m impressed that you learned to prepare carbonara in middle school! I didn’t know how to cook anything at that age–not even an egg, LOL! I have no doubt that your version is great, by the way. 🙂

  13. March 5, 2012 4:42 PM

    I would have been the same way! People tell me I look intimidating, but I’m not! I promise! 🙂 This carbonara looks insane! I only use the yolks, I find it makes the pasta nice and creamy. Delicious plating!! Yum!!

    • March 6, 2012 8:31 PM

      Hi, Lacy! I’m always tempted to use just the yolks since they’re what add the creaminess to the dish. I’ll have to try it that way one day. 🙂

  14. March 5, 2012 5:35 PM

    It drives me crazy when I see pasta carbonara on a menu and its a cream sauce with peas and bacon. I don’t mind mixing it up a little bit, but that is too far. Love your version…it looks exactly like a carbonara should.

    • March 6, 2012 8:32 PM

      Thanks, Deanna. The “right” way to prepare a carbonara is such a sticky subject. I’m hoping I didn’t offend anyone in this post. 🙂

  15. March 5, 2012 6:40 PM

    Your carbonara looks fantastic, just like I had it in Rome. Of course ‘pancetta’ or ‘guanciale’ would be best, but I could have your dish every day!

    • March 6, 2012 8:34 PM

      Paolo, I wish I had access to guanciale; it’s hard to find in my neck of the woods. I’ve been tempted to make it myself…maybe one of these days. 🙂

  16. March 5, 2012 7:26 PM

    What a nice looking carbonara dish! It’s one of my favorite pasta dishes. Thanks for the great recipe!

  17. March 5, 2012 7:38 PM

    One of my favorite ever pasta dishes 🙂
    And what a story!

  18. March 5, 2012 8:14 PM

    you and snob !! NO WAY.
    This dish looks so yum Jean and I have this weakness for pasta you know 🙂

  19. March 6, 2012 12:44 AM

    Of all people to call a snob! Certainly not you 🙂

    Jean, you have managed to make this humble dish into something so undeniably elegant. It’s one of my favorite pastas and the kids have developed quite a liking (loving?) to it, too. Nothing like carbonara to save the day when the pantry is bare. Come to think of it, I have a big slab of bacon in the fridge – I think this just may be dinner tomorrow!

  20. March 6, 2012 6:01 AM

    I love a good pasta dish without the cream 🙂 Your carbonara looks fantastic.I can’t wait to whip up a batch though i’ll have to use something else for bacons.

  21. March 6, 2012 10:16 AM

    Sounds like we had a similar high school experience. I was frequently thought of as a snob or told I was intimidating, when really I was just quite shy and suppose I still am.
    Your carbonara recipe is traditional perfection…beautifully done!

  22. March 6, 2012 1:03 PM


  23. Harry permalink
    March 6, 2012 3:30 PM

    From one Carbonara snob to another i’ll pass on a tip! A great way to avoid the scrambled egg issue is to whisk in a tablespoon or so of the pasta cooking water into the egg mixture to help temper it before adding the pasta. Works like a charm!

    • March 6, 2012 8:37 PM

      Harry, thanks for the tip! I wish I had learned to do this much sooner. Now I just lightly drain my pasta before adding to the egg/cheese mixture to avoid scrambling the eggs. Your way is more foolproof. Thanks, again! 🙂

  24. March 6, 2012 4:26 PM

    Yum, Jean! One of our favorites! I lived in Rome as a teenager where this dish originated! Very nice rendition!

  25. March 6, 2012 7:38 PM

    It’s funny everyone has a different way of making this classic Italian dish and yours looks wonderful. My Italian chef hubby does put a little cream in his and when we were in Italy last June, so did his mamma. I was spoiled with his mamma’s own cured pancetta…nothing here I ever found has that flavor. Your photos are tempting me:)

    • March 6, 2012 8:42 PM

      I know what you mean, Lora. I don’t think I’ve ever seen two carbonara dishes prepared exactly the same way. I hope I didn’t offend with my post; I am not an authority by any means. It’s just that most restaurants I’ve been to add so much cream to their carbonara, might as well forget the eggs–I eat it anyway. I have just found a way to prepare it the way I like. I wish I had an Italian mother in law who could give me her own cured pancetta–that would be positively heavenly! 🙂

  26. March 7, 2012 12:59 AM

    Nothing like a bowl of pasta!

  27. March 7, 2012 1:04 AM

    yum!! thanks for sharing this simple delicious recipe! I always put a dallop of creme fraiche in just to thicken the mix 😀

  28. March 7, 2012 6:27 AM

    Her pancetta is unreal.;) no offense at all, my dear. I love your post and love your pasta:)He puts a little cream for us b/c we like the flavor and extra creaminess (and so does his mamma for her grandkids) but I know in Italy it is usually w/out. And I get what you mean about it being too much cream…

  29. March 7, 2012 11:02 AM

    one of my favorite pasta is carbonara (minus the bacon 😛 ) but i have a couple of bad memories. the scrambled eggs 😦 will have to try your version. looks incredible good!

    • March 11, 2012 11:48 AM

      Roxana, I ended up with scrambled eggs a couple of times, too, before I got the hang of it…thanks!!

  30. March 7, 2012 5:35 PM

    Hi Jean! I have been trying to make carbonara for a few years now, but I only make it maybe once a year. Every time, I’ve been slightly disappointed as the recipes haven’t been quite good enough – or I’m just not cooking it right. Haha. The last one I made a couple of months ago was good, but it was too creamy for me. My husband still liked it, but I have a feeling when i try your recipe for my annual carbonara, it won’t disappoint. I’ll let you know when I get around to making it. 🙂 Hope all is well & that you had a great time in SA.

    • March 11, 2012 11:50 AM

      Oh, Judy, if you do try this recipe I hope it’s to your liking. It took a few tries to get it the way I want it but this is a decent base, I think. Carbonara can be so tricky, can’t it? 🙂

  31. Madeline permalink
    March 8, 2012 6:30 PM

    I LOVE carbonara, but I rarely make it. I’m also a snob about it, and alfredo. Usually when I decide to make one or the other, I also bust out my pasta maker, and do the pasta from scratch. I figure for such a simple dish, using the best, freshest ingredients makes all the difference. And how much more fresh does pasta get than making it yourself?!? If you’ve never tried carbonara with fresh, homemade pasta, I suggest it next time you make it. It elevates an already heavenly dish!

  32. March 9, 2012 1:50 AM

    I’m not a hugely gregarious person unless I know someone, so I have to work at it.

    I love making my own pasta and then the sauce. It’s an easy dish and with really fresh ingredients it always wows the crowd.

  33. March 9, 2012 3:29 AM

    How funny, I’ve got the same thing when I was younger. I think my shyness was mistaken for being standoffish but I guess we all see the same thing from different viewpoints.

  34. Mikayla permalink
    March 10, 2012 8:37 PM

    I LOVE Carbonara, but have never been brave enough to make it myself becuase of the raw eggs. Well I finally gained up the courage and made your recipie for dinner tonight! It was FANTASTIC! And I was so proud of myself for trying something new! Thank you for a great and not overly complicated recipe! Its wonderful!

    • March 11, 2012 11:51 AM

      Mikayla, your comment made me so happy! Thank you for giving this recipe a chance–I’m so glad you liked it and yay for no scrambled eggs!!! 🙂

  35. March 13, 2012 4:39 AM

    This looks incredible!


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